Short answer: do not go looking for the wheelchair - make the system come to you. Booked assistance that fails to show up during a connection is a known problem, and the response is a fixed sequence: tell the cabin crew before they leave the aircraft, then the gate staff, then the airline's phone line, then the airport's help desk. Stay near the aircraft door or the gate the whole time. Every minute spent walking to find someone makes you harder to find.
Before anyone leaves the aircraft. The single most valuable move happens in the first two minutes after landing. When the seatbelt sign goes off and the escort is not visibly waiting, tell the cabin crew immediately: my wheelchair assistance is booked but has not arrived, please call it in. Crew can radio ahead and are used to doing it. If your parent is travelling alone, coach them on exactly this sentence - and on staying seated until someone from the airline confirms help is coming.
Escalate in order, in place. If the crew has left and still nobody comes: one, the gate agent at the arrival gate - they can call the assistance contractor directly. Two, the airline's customer-care number, with the PNR ready - ask them to log that booked assistance failed and to send someone now. Three, the airport's information or assistance desk, or a courtesy phone. Four, if all else is slow and your parent can manage it with support, any airline staff member or even the airport's general help staff can arrange a buggy or escort informally - ask plainly; people help.
Write it down as it happens. Note the landing time, when assistance was requested, who was told, and when help actually arrived. Photograph the boarding pass and, if it comes to that, the departure board showing the missed onward flight. A complaint with times and names moves; a complaint without them stalls.
If the connection is missed, who repairs it depends on the tickets. On one through ticket, the missed onward flight is the airline's problem: ask for rebooking on the next available flight and for meals or a hotel if the wait is long, and mention explicitly that booked assistance failed - that is a service failure, not your late arrival. On two separate tickets, the onward airline owes nothing: the risk of the gap was priced into the cheap ticket, and travel insurance is the backstop. This is exactly why separate-ticket connections for elderly parents need generous buffers.
Complaining afterwards, the Indian way. Start with the airline in writing - its nodal or grievance officer; India's aviation regulator has moved to a framework that requires airlines and airports to appoint nodal officers and track complaints online, and the DGCA has penalised airlines over disability-service failures. If the airline does not resolve it, escalate on the government's AirSewa grievance portal, which tracks complaints officially. Keep the PNR, the assistance confirmation, and your timeline of the day - those three turn an anecdote into a case.
Abroad, the same principle, different door. In the US, airlines must provide prompt wheelchair assistance on request and must have a Complaint Resolution Official available - ask for the CRO on the spot. In the UK and Europe, complain to the airline and airport first, then the aviation regulator. Wherever it happens, the rule of thumb holds: on the spot, escalate in place; afterwards, complain in writing with times.
Prevent it next time. At the first flight's check-in, confirm the assistance request is on the booking and ask them to note the connection. Remind the crew on board before descent so they radio ahead. And build connections with slack - a tight connection turns a ten-minute assistance delay into a missed flight.
How we build this in at TripKeeper. For elderly travellers we confirm assistance with the airline before every leg, keep connections generous, and give the family a card with the exact sentences to use if help does not show - plus our number, so the escalation never falls on your parent alone. Send us a trip-planning inquiry and travel with a plan for the day things go wrong, not just the day they go right.
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